She is here on work Visa from Phillipines. Can we marry in Hong Kong and then file for spousal Visa so she can go to USA to live with me? She actually wants me to go live in the Phillipines with her rather than go to the USA. I have her resume of schools, including past and current employer as a teacher, not a hooker (or she works for free).. Has proof of all her travels in passport and document that her husband was killed in auto crash. What am I missing here? More: I am age 52 and She is age 33. I have been married and have divorced 2 times with my last divorce in 1999. I met here 2 months ago here in Hong Kong shortly after I arrived here and my project here ends in 2-3 more weeks. She knows that I will be leaving and that is what brings up the marriage word. She wants me to go to the Phillipines and meet her mother in April. More comments or answers?
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A filipino? She's probably a hooker! Run away! My friend married one, not only was she a wh0re, but dig this she was married in the phillipines already!!!!
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LOL! It looks like you may one of the many expats targeted by Filippinas for visas & green cards. There's a 99% chance you have a problem on your hands. The Philippines is notorious as #1 in the world for marriage fraud (Thailand is #2, and Russia a close third). How long have you lived in HK? Did you meet her during your first year posted overseas? Does she have less than a university degree? What kind of employment visa does she hold - less than a professional level position? All of these are signs that you are being scammed. Hold off for at least a year on any discussions of marriage. Also, lots of opportunities in Phil. for educated Americans, so suggest that IF you two were ever to get married, you'd want her to sponsor your immigration to the Philippines. If she still wants to marry you if you both live in Phil, maybe she really does love you and want to be with you. But more likely, she wants your Gold card and a green card.
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Well, while a majority of Philipino ladies might be known for the wrong reasons, i don't think it is fair for anyone to stereo type. If you say this lady is a decent person, then who we are to say you are of poor judgment when we have'nt even met her. If you did want to marry her and bring her to the US you will certainly be able to do so, being that you are a US citizen. You have not mentioned for how long you have known this lady though. In my opinion, you should not marry anyone on impulse, and it is always best to give a relationship a good 2 years before entering wed lock. Can't you just live with her for a while and really get to know her ? Visit her family in the Philipines too, that will help you know for sure, if she is a decent person from a proper back ground, and also if she is marrying you for the right reasons and not just as an access to gaining entry into the US. Good Luck !
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I'm a 32-year old Filipino and and my husband is a 52 year old Korean... I'm worried you're rushing into things. You might want to try visiting her first in the Philippines and check her story (and have fun at the beach at the same time). Where's she from? You don't need a visa to go to the Philippines if you're going on a short visit. There are direct flights from Hong Kong to Cebu and Manila. Still if you want to get married, check out this how-to. http://www.squidoo.com/Filipino-Wives
